I don’t walk around announcing my boundaries to the world, diva, yet my clients, team, friends, and family have no doubts about what my boundaries are. 🙏
👑 I know who I am.
👑 I know what I charge.
👑 I know what I do and don’t do.
👑 I know what works for me.
You have to claim your boundaries internally before they are reflected externally… especially when it comes to business, family, money, and service. 🙌
Before I had my bodacious boundaries embodied in every cell of my being, I was crawling on the floor in pain, chronic illness, and total victimhood to other people and stories from my past. 😩
The truth is you can either choose to be that woman who is burnt out and crawling to the bathroom because you can barely get up, 🙁 or you can choose to be a woman that takes a STAND and energetically commands what she desires. 🔥
That woman isn’t afraid of saying no to low-ball offers ✋ and requests for discounts, and she certainly never bats an eye at laying out contracts and doing business with sublime responsibility and sacred clarity. 💖 She takes nothing personally.
If you’re exahusted and basically terrified 😖 to go to the next level in your business because there’s just no bandwidth for you to serve even one more client, I’m willing to bet that it’s your lack of clear boundaries that are royally fucking things up for you. ❌ When you’re in energetic constriction and at a vibrational deficit, you have to make a shift to RISE. 🙌
Here’s what I know to be true:
When you feel like your boundaries have been violated and you’re triggered as all eff, 💥 ask yourself these 6 potent questions before you go blaming others, giving up your power, and sending yourself into victimhood paralysis:
What is this trigger reflecting to me? 🙋♀️
What’s the emotion coming up for me right now? 🤔
What wound is it bringing up? 💔
What do I need to release here? 🦋
What shift do I need to make in order to not have this experience again? 🙏
What boundary do I need to claim and communicate with LOVE? 💕
These questions will show you where you’re out of alignment.
Take responsibility for your own energy and emotions. 👏
Stop handing over your vibrational autonomy to others and really go within and make peace ☮️ with yourself.
Get really clear on:
What you LOVE to do and HOW you like to work with clients. 🤝
Your personal value system: list three new standards that reflect HOW you want to be treated. 💖
What you provide in your work and what you don’t provide. ✅
How you want to be treated and how that would feel in your life. 🥰
I didn’t create an empire full of soul sister clients ❤️ who love and respect me and my work from a place that lacked love and respect for myself; it was an energetic shift and a conscious command that I made.
I was over having needy ‘victim’ clients, so I had to SHIFT MYSELF into a new FIELD of LOVE. I had to shift the way I relate to SERVICE. I had to heal my relationship with my MOTHER. I had to RESPECT myself on a deeper level, and I had to make a VOW around what I will accept and what I will NOT accept. 🦋
Decide that you deserve to live in the pleasure of bodacious boundaries, gorgeous.
You no longer need to run around like a madwoman trying to keep everyone happy, fixing everyone else’s problems, and running yourself into the ground. ✋
When I started making a lot more money in business, I was always trying to play the fixer-upper. I wanted everyone to be loved and supported, but I drained myself to do it… as many women do. 😴 I thought if I didn’t give enough, I wasn’t really earning the money I made.
I couldn’t hold energy, money, or pleasure for myself in this state. I had to really look at the belief that it wasn’t okay for me to have abundance and richness in my body, my life, or my business. 😒
This meant getting extra emotional and trauma release support from experts, so I could focus on messaging, strategy, offers, upsells, downsells, and big-picture visions. ✨
🔥 This is the TIME to choose pleasure, play, and riches, diva.
Release and rise to the next level! 💥
RISE, diva, RISE!
We’re here for you. You’ve got this. We’ve got you. 🤗
Either run or STAND UP and decide to ascend. 👑 Online business isn’t child’s play. We’re grown women around here, standing in our power, making millions, and reaching millions, and we will no longer be taken advantage of and f*cked over while we remain silent. 🤭
Unf*ck your boundaries, gorgeous, and get ready to move forward. ⏭️ What would your life look like if you did this today?
If you’re done trying to run a business from people pleasing overwhelm and you’re ready to strategically share your soul work with the world to the tune of six and seven-figures a year, hop on a call ☎️ with one of my diva advisors and have a chat with them to map out a plan to turn your bodacious boundaries into the rocket fuel 🚀 for a bonafide cash machine in your business.
Lots of love and divine riches,
Leading 7-Figure Strategist
Ingrid Arna is the founder and CEO of The Ingrid Arna Company and the creator of the Gucci of online business programs, High-End Empire. Her brand of coaching is far from generic. She’s here to help people like YOU wake the eff up, so they can claim their sacred power to lead, serve and build a legacy of divine wealth and global impact.
Through her work as a leading business strategist, wealth advocate, and agent of transformation, Ingrid has taught hundreds of visionary online entrepreneurs, mystics, healers and coaches to stop playing small, step into their brilliance, and build high-end empires with clarity, confidence and divine femme power and WITHOUT sacrificing themselves and those they LOVE.
Through her intensive studies in vibrational healing and her 20+ years of experience working for multimillion-dollar corporate brands, celebrity clients, and startups, Ingrid learned that the key to global impact and radical, positive change is to combine rapid business growth and cutting-edge marketing strategy with deep healing and emotional clearing. Armed with this realization Ingrid created her renowned integrative approach to coaching that centres on transformational healing work that allows her students and clients to crush toxic limiting-beliefs, break free from self-sabotage, and release addiction to sacrifice in order to build a
rich, nourishing life and business.
Ingrid’s work has landed coverage in broadcast outlets around the world, including Vogue, Cosmopolitan, InStyle, The Huffington Post, Good Health Magazine, Fox News and The Steve Harvey Show.
Since becoming a mother, the only resolution Ingrid has stuck to is swapping G-strings for granny panties and quadrupling her fees. She’s never been happier. To learn more about Ingrid Arna and The Ingrid Arna Company, visit www.ingridarna.com.
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